THE SHADOW OF ACCEPTANCE: 

The value of acceptance is instilled very strongly in my belief system and upbringing.

However, the question that often overcomes me is the shadow aspect of acceptance. This often takes a seeker into negative spaces building resentment, resignation, complacency, and an attitude of giving up all action. They tend to blame their past karmic actions and seek solace within that understanding.

My understanding is that life is unfolding in a way that it is meant to. There is always a  learning that happens in every situation and possibilities that one can explore and discover.

A conscious seeker looks for the lessons to learn, grow, transform and let go of attachments to the outcome.

A short summary of my learnings when life gives me a “not so nice experience”: 
– Take 10000 steps back from the situation. Distance and detachment are key.
– Stop treating anything as a personal failure.
– Learn from what life is giving me.
– Stop attaching and clinging to the outcome. The desired outcome shall happen at the most appropriate time if this is what the Universe believes I must receive.
– Enjoy the process even further
– Be extremely kind to myself
– Bring further rigor into my daily way of being.
– Wellbeing is the most valued treasure. I live a life of joy and peace. An unpleasant situation shall not take this away from me.

I believe this is how I create my destiny going forward. I’d be curious to hear your thoughts.

Humbly
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